How to start an erotic chat without embarrassment

The first line is the hardest: here’s how to break the ice and read the rhythm.

Distance is not a limit: it is a space to fill with the right words. In this guide we gather the advice of our most experienced creators so you can get the most out of every conversation.

Where to start

The first step is always the hardest, but it takes very little to break the ice. Let curiosity guide you, without rushing and without scripts: one sincere question is worth more than a thousand stock phrases.

Mistakes to avoid

Don’t rush to get to the point and don’t recite a script. Authenticity is what sets a memorable conversation apart from an ordinary one. Listen, reply, play.

Rhythm is everything

Alternate intense moments and pauses, leave room for anticipation. Desire is born in the silences and in the small provocations. Dose your words the way you would in person.

How to improve every day

Reread the conversations that worked, take note of what turns your interlocutor on and build your own style. On Velour everything works with tokens: you pay only for what you use and every conversation stays private and confidential.